Photo: jennymollen/Instagram

Jenny MollenandJason Biggsare happily in love on their 14th anniversary — whether they’re married or not!
On Friday, the author and actress, 42, celebrated their milestone on her Instagram account, sharing a snap of her feeding the seemingly reluctant actor, 43.
“14 years ago, two people who’d known each other for only 9 months drove to a Calabasas fedEx Kinkos in their pajamas and got married,” shewrotealongside the photo.
She then joked, “Who knows if that FedEx was even real or a figment of our imaginations or if the woman who married us was a licensed justice of the peace or just some down on her luck actress looking to make a quick 300 bucks.”
She went on to wish “Jason f—— Biggs” a happy anniversary before telling him, “Thank you for taking this trip w me.”
Referencing the photo, she left Biggs with a hilarious question: “Ps. Do you think this is a cute pic of you? My editors said no. But I really want to use it in the@dictatorlunchesbook. I know you sort of have only half your neck but I insisted you would be fine with it. As a precaution I figured this would be a good way to gage your thoughts. So…. what do you think?”
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Biggs also commemorated their special day with a series of photos of him and Mollen through the years, penning a sweet message for her in the caption.
“In 14 years, my dreams have changed a lot. But the woman in them has very much stayed the same. Happy anniversary@jennymollen,“wrotetheAmerican Piealum.
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The couple — who share sons Lazlo, 4, and Sid, 8 — has been candid about whether they want a third child. MollentoldPEOPLE in 2020 that she would be open to it under one condition.
“I mean, if [Jason] could carry it, totally,” Mollen joked. “Or if somebody could present me with a 2-year-old that looked just like me.”
source: people.com