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Erika Jaynedoesn’t care to keep count.
The Real Housewives of Beverly Hillsstar opened up about her sex life during an Instagram Q&A on Tuesday. At the time, she spoke about her past, and current, relationship history — and why she’s no longer keeping track of it.
“I’m too old to remember all of them,” Erika, 51, laughed when speaking about her number of past sexual partners, perPage Six. “I quit counting years ago. It’s good enough to be experienced but, you know, low miles.”
Erika has given some dating life updates since separating from her longtime husband,Tom Girardi. As she opened up about her “secret admirer” on a previous episode ofRHOBH, Erika’s then-costarLisa Rinnaasked if she had been on any “dates” with the man.
“No … I’ve had some sex though,” she responded.
Erika also toldE! Newslast year that she’s “really socially awkward” when it comes to dating, additionally noting how men are often “scared of her.”
“I say exactly how I feel, and I realize that men don’t like that,” she previously said. “They say they want a woman that’s forward, but they really don’t.”
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But Erika explained how she’s still enjoying this stage of life, adding, “I’ve had a chance to completely start over and be free from an over 20-year marriage and almost wipe the whole slate clean in a way. It’s my life to rebuild.”
Erikafiled for divorcefrom her husband,Tom Girardi, in November 2020 after 21 years of marriage. She left Tom, 84, one month before the couple was sued forallegedly embezzling money.
The former attorney was later indicted in February on eight counts of wire fraud and four counts of criminal contempt after allegedly stealing more than $3 million intended for relatives of victims killed in the crash of Lion Air Flight 610, the U.S. Attorney’s Office, Northern District of Illinois, said in apress release. Two of Tom’s colleagues — David R. Lira and Christopher K. Kamon — were charged as well.
Addressing the matter while onRHOBH, Erika explained how she’s navigated this challenging period.
“There’s a lot of sadness still here,” she admitted. “But there is happiness in the form of having some fun with some friends, having some sex and just trying to stay in the moment and not stay in the past.”
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The Real Housewives of Beverly Hillswill return for season 13 in November.
source: people.com