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Reza Farahan‘s friendship withMercedes “MJ” Javidis officially over.
“I can never be friends with her again, because first she sent her little minion to come do her dirty work, then, in my opinion she sent her husband to come vandalize my property and threaten my life,” Farahan, 45, tells PEOPLE about Javid, 46, and Feight.
LAPD officers took a vandalism report but Feight has not been charged with any crime. A representative for Javid and Feight had no comment when asked about Farahan’s allegations.
“Plus, it’s not like she reached out to me and apologized! If it were me and my husband had gone to someone’s home and vandalized their home, the first thing I would do is pick up the phone and I would call and say, ‘Hey, I am so sorry, I know you don’t believe me right now but I am devastated for what my husband has done to you, I apologize from the bottom of my heart. I will make the financial situation right, let me know how much damage he did, I will cut you a check for 10 times that amount. … Please don’t file a restraining order, please don’t pursue any legal action.’ I would be so remorseful if my husband had gone to someone’s home and vandalized it, I would be so remorseful if my husband had called and threatened your life, I would be doing everything in my power to make it right, but it’s been radio-silent,” says Farahan.
“So, clearly, she’s not remorseful and clearly she knows what she did was horrible,” he says. “I’m speechless, I’m devastated.”
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The order comes after Feight allegedly threatened to kill Farahan at his Los Angeles County home on Sunday.
Javid did address the situationin a statementto E! News” “It deeply saddens me that my former friend is battling with his demons and has decided to go this low to hurt me. The more he goes down this dark path, the harder it will be for him to recover from it.”
Feight also seemingly addressed the incident in an Instagram post on Wednesday, sharing a throwback photo of his wife in the hospital after she gavebirth to their son.
“This is how my wife spent her 1st 2 days as a mom – it was without a doubt the most terrifying experience I have ever been through, i have never felt so alone and helpless and even now I can’t think of this experience without breaking down – she is a warrior and stronger then any women I know – she is my Queen my hero and my universe,” he wrote.
Feight continued: “I will let NO ONE disrespect minimize and devalue all that she went through to bring our son into this world – i took vows to protect her and keep her safe and I will do that until my last dying breath #tillthedirt #myqueen #smother #khaleesi #bendtheknee.”
Bravo had no comment.
According to Farahan, the damage that was allegedly done at the hands of Feight could be as high as $10,000.
But before Feight allegedly vandalized the reality star’s home, Farahan says his friendship with Javid was already on the rocks.
“Honestly, I think that she believed that I was the ring-leader of our friend circle and she wanted to be the ring-leader of our friend circle,” Farahan claims.
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He also alleges that Javid tried to sabotage his marriage with Adam while she was on bedrest.
Farahan recalls a day that he called Javid to discuss frustrations in his marriage. While he remembers her “talking me off the ledge,” she allegedly twisted the information he told her.
“Little do I know, later on, she would use those things against me to say I have a tumultuous marriage or I’m having marital problems or whatever the case may be, when in all actuality, she in the moment was a really great friend and she talked me off the ledge and she allowed me to see everything through the grey lens as opposed to it being just black or white,” he recalls.
A source told PEOPLE on Monday that there is tension with Javid and her castmates.
“Mercedes is going through a lot surroundingShahsand the cast,” the source said. “She’s fed up.”
“Before she went into the hospital everything was fine between Reza and her, but during the time that she was in ICU and intubated, Reza blocked her on social media and never reached out once,” the source claimed, noting her difficult labor.
To that, Farahan says, “Absolutely I didn’t respond or reach out once! When I realized that she sent her gay minion to accuse my husband of sexual harassment and infidelity, absolutely when the person you wound up to come attack me and take my character down and destroy my marriage, when your minion comes and says, ‘This is what MJ did’ … of course I’m not going to come visit you!”
The rift has been painful for Farahan. Not only have they starred alongside each other on the Bravo reality series since 2012, but they’ve also known each other since childhood.
“Adam and I lay in bed crying at night thinkingHow could someone that I treated so well— I literally scattered her father’s ashes with her … I was trying to smooth everything over and make sure her wedding went off without a hitch,” says Farahan. “I bought her a Cartier bracelet, I wrote them a $2,500 check for their wedding, and this is how she repays me.”
While Farahan is heartbroken over the series of events, he’s ready to leave the drama between him and Javid in the past.
Although Farahan says “it’s really been the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through,” an unexpected joy came into his and Adam’s world amid the turmoil. While going to the court on Monday, the couple found a kitten on the curb, who they have since brought home and named Bugsy.
“The only shining light in all of this was yesterday when Adam and I went to the court to file the restraining order, we found a kitten and we’re so blessed to have this little angel come into our lives on a day when we were dealing with something so heavy and negative,” says Farahan.
He adds: “So, we got a little guy named Bugsy out of it that we’re madly in love with, so I guess there was a silver lining.”
source: people.com